So how's your day?
A question for you: what score do you give your days at work? Do you have a 5/10 day each day? Are some of them 7 or 8 - or even 9/10? (I asked a group this question once - one woman said "I would LOVE to have a 5/10 day...most of mine are 1/10!)
We spend a lot of our time at work, and we're all just trying to get along with each other, do a good job and go home happy and satisfied. Whether you're a boss, an employee or self-employed, in sales, private enterprise or the public service, we are all looking for the same thing - happier customers, a better working environment, more enjoyment and higher productivity.
So how can we get it?
What causes the problem?
Recent research by Prof Colin Coulson-Thomas of the
- being reluctant to share
- seeking to cooperate only on your terms
- putting the bare minimum into maintaining relationships
- avoiding the confrontation that comes with arguments that precede mutual respect and agreement
In other words, people are afraid to collaborate: to do those things that are necessary for us to navigate through the inevitable difficulties, challenges and pitfalls of working together. So how can we fix it? Prof Coulson-Thomas' research shows how.
Collaboration at work means...
- being open to new ideas and suggestions for improvement
- endeavouring to find common ground and resolve conflicts
- establishing and regularly reviewing collaborative processes (eg the effectiveness of meetings!)
- being willing to challenge constructively
- recognising that deepening relationships is essential to mutual success
What this research shows is that it is possible each day to "improve the score" - there are practical things we can all do to have a better day.
Remember: the score you give each day isn't fixed at the beginning of the day, and needn't nose-dive just because something has gone wrong!

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